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Blind Man

Hi Antonia, and thanks for the link!

Great article by Dimanno. She finely distills the legal problem at issue and discards the sediment that might be clouding our view. She is quite right to point out that religion, and the accuser's piety, should not bear on the case. We have to read her story, and not project our own. When we decide that the veil is a tool of patriarchy, we might be right, but that is our narrative, our interpretation, not the one that matters to the complainant. As Marjane Satrapi notes in the article I cited, she views the veil as a symbol of violence, but that should not conflict with a self-aware woman who wishes to wear one. A rape trial is not the place for that fight, especially if it gives her comfort.

My own views on the veil in general are less pronounced. I'm not sure the veil is worse than the mini-skirt, myself. Both are not decreed by state or religion, but socially enforced, through various pressures and patriarchal strategies of control. I want to know why one outrages us and the other does not. The answer, I suspect, lies in the fact that we are at war with a culture that prefers the hijab, and in bed with the one that prefers the mini-skirt. But I have to say, whatever the answer, it will provide small comfort to a woman testifying against the man who sexually assaulted her.

sooey

I don't even see how wearing a veil prevents the defendant from facing his accuser. What's with the literal interpretation? What real difference does it make if he can see her face or not? I mean, if it were the other way around and the veiled defendant is facing a fully bearded accuser with a moustache and long bangs hanging in his eyes - should he have to shave and get a haircut?

Sebastian Stoker

Much of Christian, Jewish and Muslim belief is unconsciously reactionary to pagan practices of the ancient world. And the rigidity of adhering to such practices is (though not excusable) understandable.

Of the three most common religions of today only Judaism comes anywhere close to being able to compete with paganism in terms of lifespan. Paganism existed for millennia before monotheism took any significant hold, and even if one were to accept that the larger branches of paganism evaporated with the death and resurrection of Christ, Paganism stills has a good 5,000 plus years on Christianity.

Unfortunately, the pagan practices that the big three religions are often reacting to are those related to woman. In the pagan world women were often not just equal participants in religion and public life, but leaders, and their sexuality and sexual role were tied to religious practice (temple and brothel were one, nudity and orgy were part of ritual, embellishment of female beauty and flaunting of such embellishments were sacramental, female independence was a given).

So, fundamentalists of Christianity, Judaism and Islam dictate that women be modest (often to the extreme), stay far away from the centers of cultural, financial and religious life, exert no influence, and subjugate themselves to men. Even some of the most extreme fundamentalist of these religions will concede that demand for such behavior is not the result of a direct commandment from God. However, they will still insist that such behavior is correct, and that those who do not follow are blasphemers and must be punished. And the less fundamental of followers will often agree, to at least some small degree.

The great challenge of the 21st century and beyond, is for us to look at such things as religion, and separate the pure essence (True Piety in the case of religion) from reactionary cultural baggage, keep the essence and dump the baggage. If we can sort this out, we will jump light years ahead in our evolution as human beings. Good luck!

P.S. There is a great book regarding the relationship to paganism and monotheism called "When God Was a Woman" by Merlyn Stone. It details the shift in the world, from pagan to monotheistic, the matriarchal to patriarchal. It is a great read, and really emphasizes that there is an explanation for absolutely everything, including religious and cultural belief. And no "God wishes it so" is not an explanation.

jdv

Muslim women I have known have alikened being forced to remove the hijab to a Western woman being forced to reveal her breasts. When placed in that context, you start to understand how much of a violation it is to impose our own beliefs on others.

The young women has (allegedly) been violated once already. Why must she be violated a second time by being forced to remove her niqab? Testifying in such a case is difficult enough already.

I can't believe you have anything to grapple about. A rape victim should not be told that the process needs to be more difficult for her.

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