Maintaining a balance.
One in four of us will have some sort of mental health problem in our life. This means there are millions of people in Britain who are either encountering problems themselves or know someone else who is experiencing them.
Here's what jumped out at me. The first five words. "One in four of us..."
Not one in four people. One in four of us.
Now that's inclusive. I love
inclusive – it's one of my guiding principles. This message was so humane and inviting.
I started exploring this front page, clicking on all the links and eventually found myself at
Rethink. This national British charity, founded 30 years ago, to give a voice to people affected with severe mental illnesses, now has more than 8,300 members and
helps more than 48,000 people every year through a variety of services, support groups and the dissemination of helpful information.
This enlightened initiative has this mission:
"Working together to help everyone affected by severe mental illness recover a better quality of life."
(Rethink is only one of several large and longstanding Mental Health charities that are "challenging discrimination" and helping and celebrating people with mental health issues. Among them,
Time to Change – Let's End Mental Health Discrimination and
Mind for Better Mental Health., which gives out an annual award for
Journalist of the Year.
I was drooling. Wow, do we have a lot to learn from the Brits.
But it's very slow. I'm impatient. My concern is that with several senior psychiatrists there, wedded to the traditional biomedical approaches to mental illnesses, there's an innate bias. I could be wrong.
He lives with depression.
Let me scroll back for a moment...
Back on February 18, 2008, I received an email from a man named Robert Ashton. I didn't know him. Never heard of him. It was a few months before I had started blogging here for
Healthzone.ca at
The Toronto Star. I was teaching part-time at
Seneca College. And I was dabbling in blogging and had just launched my own personal blog. Perhaps four people had found it. One of them was
Robert Ashton. He had emailed me and said that his Google-Alert on "anti-stigma" had picked me up along with my
Groucho Marx quote. That's how we met – through
Groucho.
I wasn't spending much time blogging back then – mostly developing and teaching my then-new
Leadership in Society course. I knew how to do it – but hadn't a clue how to teach it. Also, I was far less cyber-savvy. I'm no great shakes, now, but I'm learning fast. So, I confess, I didn't do much homework on Robert.
However, all that changed on Sunday morning, sitting here in my nightie, my blogging uniform, fresh out of bed at 6:15 a.m. That's when my
Dandie Dinmont Terriers wake me up. After taking them out and feeding them, I decided to check out BBC news, re-discovered Rethink and tried to join.
But I couldn't. Only Brits allowed.
I knew that mental health recovery, rarely discussed here in the North America mainstream media, is big in England. I could see, judging by the BBC Mental Health page, that
Talking Therapies are big there, too. Much bigger than Drug Therapies. You know, I'm a strong advocate for "talking therapies" to mental health recovery and very concerned about the pervasive emphasis on drug treatments here in North America.
So, since I have Robert's
Skype address, I decided to ring him up and ask him if he could help me join Rethink.
I never, for a moment expected him to answer. Sometimes I forget about time zones.
Timing is Everything, I know, but timing has never been my strong suit!
Anyway... rrrriiiinggggg... and there Robert was – live and in full colour! All dressed and respectable, in his charming brick-walled office, wearing his pale blue Rethink T-Shirt. It was about noon in England. It was 6:15 a.m. here. Oh, dear. He could see me, too, in my pink nightie, my hair unbrushed, barely awake. I forget that I have a camera on my iMac and I don't Skype very often, either.
Oops! I was caught, unawares. Oh, well. What the hell....
But I've gone on too long, so this is going to be a two-instalment post. I know, I'm leaving you here, hanging. I promise on Thursday, I'll continue my story of my conversation with Robert Ashton and my adventures "across the pond..." in Part Two.
Thanks for your patience. Stay tuned.
Yes, folks I really was wearing my Rethink t-shirt on Sunday morning. I wear it when I go running and was planning the day's route when Sandy Skyped me! Amazing coincidence - but then I don't have a pink nightie so perhaps no surprise at all!
Posted by: Robert Ashton | May 19, 2009 at 11:10 AM
We're dealing with community level fall out from not having enough resources especially in a rural community.
Some of the seniors staff at the agencies my United Way funds, know of my desire for a "life sucks" agency.
There would be no diagnosis, which is what one needs to get help these days, it would be preventative and it would be lots of talking.
It would help people, whose lives are changing through martial breakdown, job loss, being a parent of a teenager - you know - normal life stuff, that can just wear a person down.
There would be healthy food and bright colours.
People could drop in to just talk, to talk through the day to day struggles.
People new to poverty are afraid to ask for help, so full of shame, and we try and leave them with a plan, hope and a sense of self worth. Knowing that they are not the only ones going through tough times, makes it easier - because they don’t' suck - life sucks!
I was at a meeting the other day where we discussed the challenges of housing mentally ill in seniors homes - but no other option in a rural community.
I know a situation where a woman, 60 who has schizophrenia, and as a result has to be on the secure ward. She's on suicide watch 24-7 because she's surrounded by dementia patients and the programming is built around people who don't have much brain function left. She's perfectly capable, but her environment is draining.
Ok I've gone on long enough.
It was wonderful to read about what the UK was doing - how refreshing!
Posted by: Francesca | May 19, 2009 at 04:02 PM
Hello Sandy,
What a breath of fresh "pond" air!!! I laughed!!! Pink nightie on Skype! Way to go for you. Comfort is valuable in resetting priorities, values, and well-being.
Thanks for all the links, and the light comparison between this and that side of the "pond" ... keep hopping!
Sonia
Posted by: Sonia | May 19, 2009 at 07:09 PM
Wait until you see my second instalment!
It goes up at 4:30 a.m. tomorrow morning. (Thursday, May 21, 2009)
Have a calm and peaceful meantime!
I've been outside walking my Dandies and deep breathing. The air is fresh and invigorating where I live. There are lots of trees bursting into bloom. At last.
It feels great and it's good for Lucy and Riley, too!
Wishing you well wherever you are!
Hugs,
sln
Posted by: Sandy Naiman | May 20, 2009 at 12:40 PM
Yeah, Canada is about 10 to 12 years behind what is going on in some of the other Commonwealth countries... Australia seems to have a particularly interesting and progressive approach to mental health. Basically they've gone through 3 or 4 permutations of the system overhauls we are working towards right now. (So maybe we'll catch up with where they are today in, oh, 20 years?)
However, be careful of what you ask for; apparently there is little consumer/survivor/experiential involvement in other nations, whereas Canada is (supposedly) trying to involve the input of all the stakeholders in our system's revamp, which includes those who have been involved with the mental healthcare system on whatever level.
Based on my experience, one of the things that has held us back, and will continue to hold us back, in our development of treatment strategies/healthcare overhaul is the glomming of all conditions affecting mental health under one banner, as if they all represent something similar.
From what I can see (from personal experience and academic education), addiction is different from schizophrenia is different from anxiety is different from personality disorder. (i'm still trying to wrap my head around the concept of personality disorder... but that's another issue for another day!)
My fear is (as someone with a diagnosis of schizophrenia), that the idiosyncratic needs that result from a particular condition will get lost in that broad stroke. My day to day needs are very very different from the needs of a person with depression, since my health condition is very different from the condition of depression. To me it's like saying, "We're going to deal with Cancer, Diabetes, and Stroke in the same manner! With the same approach! With the same expectations! With the same assumptions!! They are all one!"
Now, of course, basic elements of human need, like shelter, food, and income always stay the same for every person (and don't we even fail at this in the present!!), but it's in the details where the issues become very apparent, and have the potential to devolve when all is glommed under one big banner of "mental illness." (Oh, sorry, we are calling it all "mental health now!")
Sorry for my rant, but there's a lot to talk about in the arena of (mental) health, and so few are talking.
We all need to sit down for a chat. A lot of chats.
Posted by: Olivia | May 22, 2009 at 01:45 AM